Hi I come from India and have been working in US for last 20 years. My current boss for the last 3 years more than often uses this line on me “ I would like you to ......” when deligating a task. This tone in his email seems to bother me. He otherwise speaks nicely to me and we share good relationship. He generally has problems handling pressure and often times his face turns red when he is angry, has bad temper occasionally. Should I be offended by his tone or is it considered positive in the context of American culture ??