I have an interview with a recruiter and she asked me to bring 4 references to the interview...which I know is pretty standard. The problem is that I'm a manager for a very small company and I only have 2 people that can know I'm even considering another career. I have good relationships with everyone in the office, but I don't think it would be a good situation if anyone else knew. This is the only job I've had since graduating from college 7 years ago, so I don't have any other company references. What is the best way to explain something like this to a recruiter?