I am starting to have O3 with my directs, and in general (as in everyone but one direct) the process has been very very successful.
My problem is that with a very resistant direct, I can't find anything to talk about. Let me explain.
I'm taking the ropes of a department that was very mismanaged previously. I know and am well versed with its work, but right now I don't have a good grasp of what each direct is doing. With the others is rather simple because they tell me, and I can provide them with advice, guidance and tasks. But with this particular direct, who is very resistant, I'm finding it extremely difficult to connect.
My last O3 with her lasted less than 10 minutes, since she didn't want to talk about anything and I mentioned the few points I needed. I'm concerned about how this is going to play out with the rest of the group and about her attitude in particular.