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I've been in a lower management position now for almost 3 years. This is my first manager position ever and I was very excited about getting this opportunity when I first started. I was always very enthusiastic about my work and would say on a daily basis that I love my job and the company I work for. This was the case until about 6 months ago, when I was contacted by a recruiter about a position in a completely different industry, different state, much higher pay and much more responsibility. I was offered this opportunity due to my language skills. It was as if this screamed at me "Hey, if you could get this job, who knows what else you can go for". I ended up not pursuing this job but ever since then I think I've been overly excited to see what else I could do.
Right now the problem I have is also that I'm not happy in my job just because of the clientel we deal with. I have to say our company is great, the benefits are perfect for my situation and I don't see myself finding another job that pays me the same in this area. I have been constantly looking for other opportunities but I'm not sure if I should stick it out. I'm 27 and I get emotional and dramatic at times (e.g. if I have a bad day I want to quit). This sounds very childish and probably is.
I work in residential real estate (affordable section) and I have come to the conclusion that it is not for me. I like real estate, but not the residential part of it and dealing with people who are smooching off the system. I'm not allowed to make certain decisions and can't make improvements as they are not welcomed by my supervisor.
I know that I could probably be transferred to a bigger property in the future, which would provide me with a bigger salary, but it will still be the same environment and I know I'm not happy with that.
I need someone to set me straight. Should I get over it and continue to try for the best at my current job or is it time for me to explore other areas before I end up wasting my time and energy?
It does not hurt to explore
Hello Happytree,
I would explore what other opportunities there are. I would not quit your current job until you have recieved and accepted and offer for another job. No harm will come from exploring what else is out there. Best case, you find something better. Worst case, you discover you are happy with where you are at.
Thanks!
Thank you JRLZ for your response. You're right, there is nothing wrong with looking. Thanks for the advice!
What Do You Really Want?
Hello Happytree,
It seems you are not really sure what road to take to your future, not just with regards to your employment. I'd suggest creating a five year goal and making a career decision that will lead you closer to that. For example, is there a commercial division in your company or can you build a relationship with that recruiter (I believe there is a podcast episode about that)? What other opportunities will help move you towards the person you want to be?
Good luck and keep being professional.